Dear Curvy Girl,
I’ve been working with a personal trainer at my local Studio City gym for 8 months. I’m 19 and he’s 24. He just got out a 5 year relationship and I’m not sure if that was due to me or not. Before training with him I had no confidence with relationships and haven’t really had a boyfriend before so all this is new to me. I see him twice a week in a one-on-one session.
The thing is he knew me when I weighed 300lbs so he knows what I looked like ‘before’ which means a lot to me and that he really likes ‘me.’ He even uses me as his poster girl for his personal training business.
He’s started asking me if I wanted to hang out outside of the gym and has been texting me. On the weekend I went to his place but we didn’t hook up. He didn’t even try and fell asleep during the football!
I really like him but I don’t know if I want to jeopardize our trainer client relationship. Wouldn’t he have made a move by now if he was interested? What should I do?
Curvy, Confident and Cautious
So you’ve got a sexy PT interested in you even after he’s seen you huffin’ and puffin’ in the gym and sweatin’ it out. Now, if we could only get him to take his shirt off and throw you down for some horizontal huffin’ and puffin’!
There’s no question he likes you since he’s decided to see you un-paid outside gym hours. However, since he didn’t try to munch your mini muffin and fell asleep when he had you home alone then the curve ball is in your court CCC. We need to get you out of the big fat ‘friend zone.’
You have obviously developed a close relationship as well as killer abs during your 8 months of encounters with sexy PT man. Why not casually say “I think i’m ready to start dating now – got anyone you can set me up on with?” Personally i’d throw in a cheeky wink and let him sweat it.
If he’s NOT interested in you he’ll suggest one of his equally sexy friends which is a win for you. If he IS interested he’ll take the hint and presumably grow a set of curve balls and have you dropping your plus size panties before your next protein shake. I’m already imagining the Kama Sutra style positions you’ll be able to twist your tight tushes into with all that PT stamina he has down his pants. He simply needs to man up or move on.
I really hope he plants a plus size pickle in your direction CCC.
Yours in Big Curvy Love,
The Curvy Girl
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