I was all set to go to the BIG GIRL CLUB in LA Club Bounce on Saturday but then got asked on a date. I was in a mini dilemma for a second. Kinda like a “bird in the hand is worth two in the bush” scenario. Wait…if he’s the bird does that make me the hand or the bush? Since I’ve endured the plus size Brazilian laser treatment I guess I’m the hand….Anyway, do I take the opportunity for one-on-one time with the man standing in front of me or hedge my bets for a deeper dating pool at the club?
For me, the purpose of heading out on a Saturday to the BIG GIRL NIGHT CLUB is to find a man (not just for the evening by the way!) Being a plus size dater I’ve heard different things about the ‘BBW clubs’ and that some are only about hooking up, I knew the bloke asking me out was ‘free range’ in his natural environment and not on ‘the BBW scene’. This is my preference.
Do you ditch your pre-made plans on a moments notice for a guaranteed date or risk it for an array of men who want to sample from the plus size night club platter that is the BIG GIRL CLUB? And, is that merely a pimped out plus size pussy platter anyway? I needed advice on this one and here’s what my Big Curvy Lovers on Facebook had to say:
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I took this advice into account and ended up going on the date. I know you want details and I’d love to kiss (possibly) and tell (no way). The BBW club will always be there but the opportunity to date this seemingly legit man may not.
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He’s a great guy and from my POV there’ll be another date. I have no regrets and actually mentioned my dilemma about the “Night Cub vs The Date.” His response was to offer to go with me to the BIG GIRL CLUB next time! What? Now that’s a whole other scenario fella. I guess I stupidly walked right into that.
Do you take a man you’re ‘dating’ to the club with you? I’m thinking HELL NO! The only reason to go to the club is to find someone. Lets figure that out next week…until then.
Yours in Big Curvy Love,
~Kelly
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