How To Treat Your Man Like A King

Your mate or date might not crave flowers or jewelry. However, gifts indicative of the extent to which you comprehend his desires are appreciated.

Consider tickets to his top team’s next game, his favorite home cooked meal, a certificate for the golf lessons he’s been craving, the latest Polo shirt or designer duds he fancies.

Most men admit sex is a praiseworthy priority. Ensure that your time in the sack is mutually fulfilling. Your lover doesn’t inherently wish to stray. Attempting to satisfy his sexual passions will further promote fidelity.    

Never fake an orgasm. Your partner is turned on when he experiences you being pleasured.  Hence, it behooves you to illustrate and demonstrate what gratifies you sexually. Gently guide him until you reach a climax, your toes curl, your moans are amplified.

Experiment in the bedroom. Develop a secret language and use it often. Name your private parts. Dress sexy. Seduce him frequently. Be his Lady Madonna.

Your babe yearns to make you happy and is frustrated if he doesn’t achieve this. Hold your tongue, negativity, and complaints for close cohorts and display your sunny, sweet, positive disposition.

Generally, men long to be heard and understood. Practice active listening, making eye contact, and extending undivided attention. Show your beau through compassionate language and actions that you get him, you’re on his side, you have his back.

Respect is number one in the male specie’s book. Treat your beloved with dignity. Take an interest in what he’s fond of. Regard his goals and hobbies as treasures and articulate admiration.

It’s not necessary to kick the soccer ball or play shortstop. You could, nonetheless, offer to attend a match and participate by watching from the sidelines.

Rooting for your gent’s victory is always coveted. Play the role of his personal cheerleader on and off the field.  Support your companion in his career and aspirations. Provide a shoulder for him to lean on.

Behind every great man is a powerful woman holding him up. Carry him when he’s down. Tendering sympathy and compassion during his trials and tribulations goes a long way in establishing a lasting bond.

Permit your significant other the honor of finding his own path, albeit different than yours. You can survive as a pair though travelling diverse roads. You don’t need a clone. Acceptance and accommodation are key.

Men must fix things, solve problems, discover black and white explanations. It may be difficult for your paramour to watch you agonize and ruminate.

Stay tied to your trusted confidantes, sharing your deepest fears and insecurities with them. Specifically, discuss jealousy issues with close cohorts.

Let your sweetie sense your steadfast faith in his devotion, dependability, and loyalty. What you believe you will receive.

Refrain from accusing your main squeeze of physical or emotional abandonment, or questioning his commitment. Grant him the dignity of conviction in his character.

If your honey retreats to his cave, a common Mars behavior, don’t view it personally. Supply him the space and place with glee. Subsequently, use the opportunity to rest, relax, refresh, replenish, and rejuvenate.

Mull over the maxims: ‘Absence makes the heart grow fonder’ and ‘How can I miss you if you don’t go away?’ 

Always make room for romance.  Keep the fires burning and the affection churning. Remember what attracted you to your babe in the first place.

Don’t let yourself go physically. Take care of your body, mind, and spirit so you can remain your darling’s rock. You will gain substantial benefits by developing into the best woman you strive to be.

It’s adamant that you have habitual date nights. Surprise your precious with an exceptional and extraordinary excursion that you’re confident he’s been longing for.

Inside each alpha male is a little boy pining to be held. The louder he screams, the shriller he shouts, the more intensely he’s yearning to be heard, touched, coddled. Have you hugged your mega male lately?

Sanction your sweetheart when his guard is down, mentally and psychically. Allow him the liberty to be laid-back, messy, uninhibited.

Recognize you’re his best friend. The biggest compliment your honey can pay you is, “You’re my best friend.” It typically has a deeper meaning to your dearest than the three magic words, “I love you.”

Your chap may drink, smoke, or watch sports with buddies, yet you are his go to person. You’re the lone individual he’s vulnerable with. In your presence, he doesn’t have to maintain his macho image and constantly roar like the king of the forest.

Comfortable to display his soft segment, wagging his puppy dog tail between his legs, your amore is eternally grateful to vent without retort, judgment, criticism, or retaliation.

Welcome weaknesses. Embrace his limitations and flaws. Celebrate his Achilles’ heel. Invite your other half’s humanness, with tolerance and approval.

For those still searching for Mr./Ms. Right, this Wednesday, June 19 at 7pm, is the ideal chance to encounter a new ‘happily ever after’ at the free “Single Over Forty-Fivers Who Are Fabulous Mixer” at Raphael’s Restaurant, 11616 Ventura Blvd., Studio City.

Don’t miss this wonderful meet and greet right in your neighborhood, an optimum occasion to hook up with charming, classy, chic bachelors/bachelorettes waiting to chat and connect in Raphael’s warm, cozy setting.

Cocktail specials; 10% off delicious, delectable cuisine; amazing giveaways; fun icebreaker games to alleviate tension and lessen any anxiety.

No reservations warranted. Simply arrive in style. RSVP at:  http://www.meetup.com/Sweet-Sexy-Savvy-Singles-Speed-Dating-of-LA/events/123609362/

On Sunday June 23 from 6-9pm, revel in magnificent live music by accomplished vocalist, Riva Spier, at Studio City’s infamous, recently renovated, hot and hip, River Rock Lounge at the Sportsmen’s Lounge Hotel, 12833 Ventura Blvd., just east of Coldwater Canyon Blvd.

Riva will wow you with her soothing, sultry sounds, encompassing the spectrum from jazz and rock to country and blues. Her band features the talented musicians, Pat Kelley and Larry Stensvold, on guitar and Ruben Ramos on upright bass.

Fantastic and scrumptious dinner menu items include a wide array of dishes prepared with splendor and skill by renowned executive chef, Marcos Arana.

Relish in the extensive beverage selection of fine wines, hand-crafted specialty cocktails and over 30 craft beers by bottle and six on tap.

Bring your bff, soulmate, possibility, probability, or come solo for an elegant evening. Spend moments wandering outdoors under the full moon, among the gorgeous environment and calming ambience.

What did John Wayne, Clark Gable, Bette Davis, Humphrey Bogart, Lauren Bacall, Tallulah Bankhead & Lena Horne have in common? They were all regulars at Sportmen's Lodge.

The River Rock Lounge is steeped in the history of Hollywood. In fact, there was the Sportsmen's Hotel before there was a film industry!

No cover charge or corkage fee; Happy Hour from 4-7p with $5 drink specials plus $5 appetizers:  roasted pears, hot wings, calamari, artichoke dips, mini corn dogs; lounge or dining room seating; free parking.